The (truncated version) of the conversation I just had...
Me: Hello.
S: I'm unhappy without you.
Me: Thought we agreed not to talk.
S: I'm unhappy without you. I really want to work it out
Me: Ok, well this is not up for discussion
S: I want you back
Me: this is not up for discussion
S: can't we talk about it
Me: this is not up for discussion
S: How're you just so cold like that. You just want to give up?
Me: (feeling confuzzled since we broke up like more than 2 months ago and I KNOW I said I was FINISHED and put it in WRITING no less). Um, yeah.
S: So what should I do, I don't want to be with anyone else except you.
Me: I don't know how to advise you on that, because as I said, this is no longer up for discussion. Let it go.
S: C'mon man.
Me: this is not up for discussion
S: You know I will show up at your house.
Me: I don't think you have it in you, but I wouldn't be surprised if you did. Doesn't matter though, cause I don't want to talk about this.
S: You don't think I have it in me?
Me: Nope. But again, nothing would surprise me.
S: I just want to talk to you.
Me: at the risk of repeating myself...this topic is not up for discussion. Not now, not later.
S: We can't talk about this at all?
Me: What exactly is there to talk about? I said what I had to say last time and I told you I am tired of you fence straddling. You do NOT know what it is you want. One minute you want to be with me next minute you don't, then you want to be my friend, next minute you can't...I'm done! End of discussion.
S: I know what I want. I want you. You know this hurts me and you're not thinking about anyone except yourself.
Me: Actually, YOU are not thinking of anyone except YOURself. I made myself VERY clear. Repeatedly. I know what I said 'cause I was THERE when I said it. Period. This topic is NO LONGER up for DISCUSSION.
---call ends. Ten mins later...
Me: (exasperated.) Hel-lo.
S: (sounding tearful) So do you want me to leave you alone?
Me: (for the love of Jesus, Allah, Buddah, Mary, Joseph, Confucious and Captain Crunch) YES!
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Did anything I said seem unclear there? I didn't think so. **Sigh!**
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